Being used. irony. what do you think?

Obviously there is no excuse for murder, violence against another or even using someone. However, we are all responsible for making good choices. If you choose to walk down a dark alley in the middle of the night in an area that is known for violence that is not too smart. The same thing applies if you are in a relationship, friendship or otherwise with a person that takes advantage of you or hurts you and you choose to continue the relationship, even against the advice of others, you do share some of the responsibility for any pain that might cause you. The primary blame obviously goes on the offender but if a person continually puts themselves in dangerous situations with bad people then it's hard to feel sorry for them.