Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Typical Indian female?

Sometimes in this life it doesn't always go as (planned)~~May be your destiny isn't about following your religious rules. There is a man out there for you-find someone you love not just to make your family happy. Living with the wrong man can be a curse- I know in your faith the woman follow the man (for the most part)In America we walk beside one another~~ (not the woman behind the man.) --which is comeplete crap--- Enjoy your freedom -Are you really ready for that??? I got married at 27--and I am Glad I waited. What is suitable anyway-someone society likes or someone you do??? Think about how you believe -not how they want you to believe.Try not to act so desperate~~when you find him you'll know it. When you do he'll be suitable to you~~he'll be the man you love -Isn't that suitable enough??? As far as your profession goes-It might be kind of screwed up for a nation to look down on someone because they aren't married(??) Sounds kinda scary -I'm glad I'm an American- If you were born over here then you have all the reason to wait and be happy about your decision-as well to know over here we won't look down on you. Professionally, or otherwise. Don't be so naive as to have your family into bulling you into what they think is suitable--follow your guts -not theres.It's your life and a real person and(or) friend would never judge you on how you chose to live--Your life-not there's. Indian or otherwise. You can't learn that by going to school -it's called commonsense. Good Luck -On being a prisner to what your family would like you to do--that's what I call pure hell.You can always say" Well you never helped me~~So- I decide to not get married until I think it's right, and that's good enough for me." and close the book on the subject for right now.

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